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2010 Indie Book Award Finalist in Relationships

Worth Waiting For - Sane Sex for Singles       

   
By Joanne M. Deck

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In Worth Waiting For - Sane Sex for Singles, singles of all ages are invited to set an intention for how they would like to experience physical intimacy when dating. The approach is not a religious or moral one; this is not another abstinence message.  Rather, the book examines today's dating model and why it's not working and how dating can be approached in a way that would be more physically and emotionally fulfilling.  Singles are encouraged to not settle just for safe sex, but instead to strive for sane sex, which results naturally when emotional intimacy is achieved before becoming physically intimate.  Sane sex happens in the context of an exclusive, loving relationship.

Endorsements for Worth Waiting For

Joanne Deck has created a caring and comprehensive guide for those looking for a real and lasting love. Her radically wise and practical message is delivered with deep heart.  Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of "Calling in The One: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life" 

Our sexual lives can be aligned and one with our spiritual lives, so offers Joanne Deck in her excellent guide for individuals and couples to experience sanity in relationships.  She shows us how to step beyond the needy, superficial, rushed encounters that all too often have become today's norm.  Joanne instructs us to become truly conscious as we move towards or away from relationships, and she urges us not to settle for less than we deserve.  Joan Gattuso, author of "A Course in Love, A Course in Life and The Lotus Still Blooms"

Don't wait to read this book! Combining thorough research with personal experience, author Joanne Deck presents a compelling argument for restoring a sense of sanity-and sanctity-to sex.  You will appreciate her thoughtful approach, charming candor, and surprisingly appropriate analogies.  Steven Lane Taylor, author of "Row, Row, Row Your Boat: A Guide for Living Life in the Divine Flow"

If you're newly single and unsure of modern dating's do's and don'ts, Worth Waiting For presents the flip-side to what you've seen on TV and in movies. Filled with studies and quotes, it gives you ammo when you're deciding what YOU want to do. I've designed my singles events to make it easy for people to meet. This book is something you should read now, before you get to the point in a relationship where a physical intimacy decision is necessary. Think of it as an investment in your future... since it is. I want ALL my singles who meet to have happy endings. The right kind, that is."  Love Dr Dave, "Calculated Couples" Founder

This book is incredible as it updates one's files around dating and sex in the 21st century and gives insight to this culture we are experiencing.  It brings clarity to words and expressions used sometimes that certainly mean something different than intended. I am very impressed with the consciousness and research around a rather sensitive subject. This book has helped me with the cultural changes around sex.  I applaud the courage and honesty of this very timely and worthy project.  Rev. Lei Lanni A. Burt, Executive Director of Light and Love Ministries

As one of the ministers Joanne consulted along her journey, and the one who was honored to perform her marriage ceremony, I know first hand that what she has written about her story is accurate. This is not only an excellent and helpful guide, it is packed with amazing information while also being an easy, absorbing page-turner.  Buy copies for yourself and all your single friends.  Rev. Dr. Mitzi Lynton, Dare to Create

Table of Contents

Introduction - Dating in the Twenty-first Century
     A Big Deal
     Defining Casual Sex
     The Prevalence of Casual Sex
     Today's Model for Dating
     
Chapter 1 - The Sexual Continuum
     Silly Sex
     Superficial Sex
     Safe Sex
     Sane Sex
     Sacred Sex
    
Chapter 2 - Sex: Why It Happens
     Sex for the Sake of Sex
     Sex as Recreation
     Low Regard for Their Bodies
     Fear of Emotional Intimacy
     Giving Up and Following the Crowd
     Low Self-esteem
     Searching for Wholeness within Themselves
     Hoping for Emotional Intimacy
  
Chapter 3 - The Need for a Different Approach
     No Need to Settle for Drive-through Sex
     Less Risky to Believe Them
     Knowing Your Partner Makes for Better Sex
     Protecting Yourself Emotionally and Physically
     Treating Your Body as the Treasure It Is
     Setting Your Own Value
     Promoting Good Health
     Making the Emotional Connection
     Aligning with the True Essence of Sex
   
Chapter 4 - Sane Sex: A More Fulfilling Path to Intimacy
     Sex in the Context of an Exclusive, Loving Relationship
     Weaknesses and Blind Spots
   
Chapter 5 - Achieving Emotional Intimacy
     Defining Emotional Intimacy
     Knowing Oneself
     Recognizing an Appropriate Partner
     Creating an Atmosphere of Safety and Trust
     Becoming More Intimate
  
Chapter 6 - Waiting It Out
     How Long Will it Take?
     Getting Stalled
     Finding Relief in Physical Closeness
  
Chapter 7 - Sacred Sex: Recovering the Spirituality in Sexuality
     The Connecting Power of Sex as a Spiritual Act
     Seeking and Finding God through Sex
     The Spirituality of the Orgasm
     Achieving Sacred Sex
   
Afterword

To purchase your copy, click here or visit one of these retailers in Arizona:

     In Phoenix            J'Adore Nails                          Creative Living Fellowship          

     In Sedona            Golden Word Books & Music     Well Red Coyote

Click here to learn about the next Worth Waiting For workshop  or contact Joanne at 602-909-8598 to schedule a workshop for your group or organization!